“We’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.”
Phases of life show quick transition. A moment you are happy and the next moment your life can turn upside down and ruin your happiness. This blog is not about happiness, it is about should we ever walk alone? Now here by walking, I don’t literally mean walking, it’s meaning here is being with yourself and maintaining distance from people.
Well, my personal experience, I hate people because they are very irritating and unpredictable and it is also the best thing about them but it depends on the type of person we are with. And finding someone who can be your friend who can make you happy and can make you do the same for them and it is very rare because we are humans selfishness is in our DNA (not actually DNA is made up of some chemical stuff). Most of the time we talk to anyone because we like talking to them it has nothing to do with the feelings of someone with whom we are talking. So, I am trying to make a point that being alone has some benefits. Now, this alone thing splits into two parts. One being alone most of the times and the other being alone when something bad happens. I don’t prefer second parts as people around you will see the sudden change and may think that you want their attention. You know, I hate when someone concludes my steps to a point that I want attention and it should bother you too because seeking for attention will give you sympathy and its only given to pathetic people and you are not that type.
The topic of today’s blog is not how should you be alone, it’s about is it better to be alone. And my answer is YES!!! it is. So, how being alone can help you. Here I am going to discuss both the parts together whether. So, what happens when you be alone?? Your brain simply works better. When you are alone you are in the company of yourself and that is only the time when you can talk to yourself for better advice which no one else can give you. When you are alone you can listen to your heart, you can figure out your purpose of existence, your aspirations, in short, you will understand yourself, you will know how YOU work which will help you to be more productive and self-improvement. You with your company can self-analyze yourself and can enhance your productivity. Moreover, when you are away from people then you will be away from their crap and you can focus on your life. All the lessons that I have learned are that more you stay away from others life, more you are happier. And one thing that most of the people do is that they tell you about others and fill your mind with prejudices and misconceptions. But being alone is not being anti-social. Being alone just the times when you have options to be with someone or none. Then choose none, my advice. Even when you are at home don’t text your friends on social media nor call them just to have fun or just to be not bored. Give yourself a try and you will become the best company you have ever been in. And by alone I don’t mean that you start ignoring people and stop being interactive, do everything that you do just give yourself more time.
When you have options then choose you. When you can then also please manage to be with you.
My concluding sentences may fire many people.
People come and go in life and if you try to carry each one with you then you will end up with a burden of many people which will prevent you from growing. Just meet new people and hold yourself through all the bad times because you will spend a lot of energy and time in explaining your condition to others whom you call friends and there are many times when they too don’t care about every problem because they got problems too and everyone wants to get listened. Just stop being that guy who tells his problems to his every friend and most of the times he conveys his problem in an imperfection way and they misunderstood it. So just stop!!!. Focus on yourself!!!