You are reading an article by Abhimanyu Jadli, a master procrastinator who wrote this blog over six months.
So, Today’s topic is very common but I here not to motivate you rather I am going to ask few questions and you will step back if you were thinking of taking a major but irrational step that could be fatal.
India has been famous for numerous things but it is also infamous for suicides, in India in every 90 minutes a child commit suicide and overall in an hour there are 15 suicides, in a day 360 and in a year 1,35,000 which is 17% of world’s total suicides.
It’s is not the problem of the Indians, it is a global problem which is to be sorted soon otherwise we are going to lose our precious gems. If we want to start this topic then we must begin with WHY.
Why do people take this step?
There are many reasons, hurdles, problems that are enough for a person to break down. We are here not to discuss any particular decision. You are the most enlightened one, you can find the solution to all of your problems. The moments that put a huge pressure on you, the moments that troubles you and the pressure which is that hard that you feel its better to stop surviving and best to leave. You don’t quit the game called life but you just leave it in the midway being ignored of what happens ahead. The problems are in everyone’s life, personally, my life has no place for leisure, the pressure of studies, giyanopedia, triangle_f and much more, but still, I find time for leisure because leaving is the easiest option just try sometimes going through the hard ways, you might find solutions and reasons.
How should we all resist?
There is a simple concept that I use which begins with a thought, yes just a thought of what is the worse that could happen if this problem comes into my life. That’s all, you do not need to work on it further. When you know that something worse could happen then if you have got B-plans then you might be easy but if you do not then that can act as a motivation, leaving is a choice which is always parallel to you.
If you are among the people who take people’s comment seriously then I must tell you do not get on drugs or ignore them, no I am not even saying you to think over it again and again just feel more depressed. I am asking you to make amendments to you. You have to think about the incident again and rewind it and the point the whole conversation went off your hand think, stress your mind for more effective replies. If you make this your habit then an era will come there will be no one to beat in arguments you will be prepared with your homework, with this you are going to transform to a bird which flies in the limitless sky.
As I mentioned you are the best mentor for yourself, so just start thinking about your future before you take any step because your every step affects your future. Your future is uncertain, it changes till you catch it. Now it depends on where you will like to catch it.
You are selfish if you jump off the fu** window or hung yourself up. You do not realize that once you were dependant on your parents but a time comes when they start to depend on you, your happiness make them smile and your sorrow makes them sad. Their life starts to revolve around yours. If you think you are of no value then you are wrong, you can make two people happy on this planet only if you choose to struggle on this planet till god snatches your last breath.
Remember it! We were not born to take our life by ourselves, we were born for a reason lets make that come true.
Make a goal your motivation to starve even if you lose all hopes but never quit because there is a limit of hardships but your strengths are limitless.