We all have different phases in our life. We struggle, fight, flight, fear, but it doesn’t matter how you react to such low points, if anything matters then it’s if you prevail through or not. Even if you choose to hide in a cold spot no one is coming to look for you but they will surely peacefully attend your funeral. You move on or not but the world moves on for sure.
Every day, we try to be better, baby steps are taken not to reach somewhere but just not to be in the same place where we were yesterday. These baby steps give us a huge jump in some other dimension that is way beyond our perception but we can feel something evolving within, few things don’t disturb us anymore, few songs make much more sense, few people just become much more tolerable and there is a lot more to experience it all depends on the thoughts you have when you are not thinking by yourself.
Yes, self imporvement is extremely important and we have biological evolution as a solid fact for that. But does it last forever?
If we look into the analogy of biological evolution, we will find a single disease could sweep off millions. We become better and then we look for the best personally without keeping track of our progress. Just imagine your self-improvement status as an object on earth and everytime you want it to rise, it goes a little higher and then falls back! There was nothing to which it can hold on. We live in a dynamic emotional environment and if we don’t revise our life lessons repeatedly in a short duration then its natural to fall apart in tough times. Revisiting all those first encounters with life values and precious moments of various realizations will definitely ignite fresh hope and help you to become better.
The word BEST is just an illusion which doesnt fit anywhere, everything is just better.