How to Find Your Passion And Why?
“The best and most beautiful things in the world can’t be seen or even touched. They must be felt by the heart.”
There are life experiences stories which tell us to look for our passion and when we look at the success of those storytellers we feel that whatever words he utters from his mouth are the golden words and are supposed to be followed in order to be successful. But success did not have any pattern, it’s just 80% your hard work and just 20% of destiny. Yes, you can beat your destiny 80 times with your hard work but destiny will beat you just 20 times and all the defeats that you will face will be in the times when everything goes great. That’s how life works. It pulls you down in your great moments to check whether you deserve success or not. This is how you become successful, just learn to resist your failures because they can freak out anyone and it’s painful to look yourself in the mirror and feel defeated. So, if you have the guts to wear a smile and work again by getting distracted by your failure then be ready to receive your prize. These may seem worthless words to many of the readers but let me clear it to you, it’s not that easy to do what I have just asked you to do if you want to get success, because success is not a moment it is a mindset. If you can handle your failure then you may be able to handle your success because of success it harder to handle than failure.
So, the conclusion of the motivational talks is to follow your passion and do what you love to do or whatever your heart says. Well, have you ever raised a question, “WHY” to yourself because you can’t ask the same question to those speakers because they figured it out and they are standing out there and you are listening to them. So, just ask yourself why you want to follow your passion because I never suggest anyone to do something that she/he is not aware of. Each time you are about to do something don’t think just ask why I want it and if you have three reasons to do it despite thousands of reason not to do it, then just go for it and let the world stands against you because if they are standing against you them whatever you are doing its right. For example when we play a war combat game them if we are going on the right way we find enemies and obstacle and if we go wrong way we find it easy to keep on going. These analogies work in real life also. So be happy that you are facing obstacle instead of being depressed or frustrated about your life.
Here are some points that may help you govern your decision whether to follow your passion or not.
- Just check it out if it will give you long-term happiness because mostly we mostly have the tendency to run after short-term or dependent happiness and later we regret.
- If you want to go on a journey to find your passion then it will help you to get away from distractions and if it fails you to prevent you from any sort of distractions them it’s not your passion.
- Whatever you are looking for should be worthy enough to be on the top of your list of priorities. It should be valuable enough for you that you can deal anything for it. (but always play a wise game)
- On the journey of the incubating your passion, you will know yourself better and spiritually you will touch yourself deeply, you will be evolved and be a better version of yourself but it doesn’t mean that you will find mental peace. It might bring tornadoes, storm in your life, in your mind but you have to just hold on.
- Whatever you are looking for must be capable enough to liberate you out of time bonds. Time bond are the few pre-fixed timetables like night are for sleeping and morning are for working and you must sleep for 7-8 hours. But whatever you are looking for is able to break all these rules then it’s worth calling a passion.
“If your work is making you insane then it’s worth calling it a Passion”
Well now just an advice, never look at an incomplete picture because you will not be able to recognize the complete potential of it.
Well, this section includes various ways by which you can find your passion and If they help you I will be happy to know in the comment section.
This is for the one who says that they don’t know what they like to do. Just try everything and there will be one thing that will make you fall for it.
Not knowing what’s your passion is a problem that most of the teenagers have because they don’t know themselves because they are becoming a part of never-ending and worthless competition or they are made confused and misguided by the parents because they force their child to do the things which give jobs security and financial security but a ship can never explore the uncharted territories if it is kept tied on the harbor because of the fear of waves. A solution to this problem is to travel alone and explore yourself. The clutter in your mind will be cleared and you will be able to think afresh.
Don’t give up:
If you find something that you do well them don’t give up on it in its initial stage because empires are not built in a day. Give your passion evolving period in which you make yourself beast in your field.
Make your own way:
If you don’t find yourself to fit in the pre-existing professions then you always have a chance to make a new one for yourself and others. Like, if you like music and technology then you can make innovations in the field of music industry. Where there is will there is a way. Just don’t be afraid of trying something new. Because if you won’t try then the chances of your failure are 100% but if you try then it’s 50-50. And you never know what’s ahead.
At last, I just want to say that if you have interest in two or more things that don’t be confused, I will just suggest you take them ahead with you till you have the capability to handle them, here you don’t have to multi-talented but extraordinarily good at one. But if you are interested deeply in two or more things then give it a shot by combing them or taking both together and for that you have to work harder twice, we have examples of many physicists who were also doing theatre with their Ph.D.’s and we all have heard of THE Leonardo DaVinci who was an artist, biologist, inventor, military engineer, philosopher, astronomer and much more.
Get rid of the fear of failing because it is worthless. If you fail you are evolving and getting better at your field of interest and its good for being failed as you come to know about the wrong ways to do a task and moreover no one ever build a bulb in their first try, no one ever build an A.C first time, everything that we see today has their many phases of failure and these are products and you are the product of yours so invest in yourself and never bring doubts in your mind about what you love to do just because of failure because if it was easy to get then everybody must have had it accomplished and then success would have just remained a normal word in a dictionary.